So I've now finished my reffing trip to Minnesota so I thought I'd share my thoughts on the rugby on here. Disclaimer: I am well aware that Minnesota is not necessarily an accurate snap shot of the nation and that my experience was limited to two weeks. These are purely my observations.
I reffed 6 "proper" matches - 2x college, 2x Boys HS and 2x Girls HS. I also reffed a lot of "third halves"/tens/sevens after the main event and a couple of training games for the University of Minnesota girls and then the St Paul Pigs who (all thanks to me of course

) went on to win their playoff game that weekend. So I saw quite a wide variety of the rugby on offer.
The rugby is generally faster and more physical than it would be at the same level in blighty, the players are all committed to the cause and don't accept losing as easily as English teams often will. Largely the players are hugely pumped up as well.
Tactically a lot of the teams leave a lot to be desired. While there is almost certainly too much kicking in English rugby, there is far too little in America and generally it is of poor quality.
Teams seem to instinctively call one play and stick with it regardless of the situation that presents itself. I would put a lot of that down to the fact that most of the players are relatively new to the sport and the influence of American Football, which imo leads to the physical nature of the game too. Skill levels can often be relatively low too.
I wont dwell on
facilities because it is pretty self evident that English clubs are going to have better facilities and the clubs in the US do the best they can with the resources available.
There seems to be greater respect for the officials in the US than at home which did surprise me.
Being called "The sir" rather than "sir" bugged me though!The teams are far more social in America. After every game there were at least some people singing rugby songs and the opposition would hang around for a few beers. Heck Duluth booked themselves into hotel rooms and partied all night after my final game! After both college games I was invited to stay for the evening which I did and I thoroughly enjoyed my experience of American College parties!
I am struggling to place the teams at an equivalent level in England. Edina HS went on tour to England and seemed to have done pretty well which didn't surprise me but the colleges I would put around the Level 8 mark. The result would all depend on whether the English club was up for the physical confrontation.
Finally, it is hugely admirable what you guys manage to achieve with the hand you are dealt. Numbers seem to be booming and standards improving which is great to see. The Minnesota Referees Society also have some bloody good refs too. English players whinge and whine an incredible amount and to see the work put in, and the
distances travelled, by Americans to play the game makes them seem even more pathetic than I thought they were before my trip.
I can see the sport growing as an amateur participation sport, particularly in the smaller colleges, but struggle to see a professional structure taking shape any time soon.
The Minnesota Referees Society took great care of me and I'll make sure we do the same when one of their refs comes over to Bucks in the autumn.
As a side note I only gave one card (yellow) during the trip and that was to a High School kid for a kick. Turns out we were both born in Watford and his Mum is from Bovingdon, about 4 miles down the road from me! Its a small world.
I highlighted a few items in there, because I agree with you on a few of these things.
Really glad you enjoyed the trip, let me know if you want to try New England, and I'll get you set up with something.
"The sir" thing annoys the hell out of me. It is very prevalent in the MidWest for some reason, along with talking about someone "Sirring the game". They somehow have confused a term of address with both a noun and a verb!